Meta intent is when you define an interaction. It’s the underlying message of the whole conversation. It can be anything, for instance if you are talking about movies, the intent is to talk about movies, but there will be specific movies you talk about.

The key is to choose the right Meta intent, you have to define the conversation.

Here are a few Meta intent goals:

• You want me
• I can satisfy your every need- I am the prize!
• I am a man of value

Stay tuned for more meta and micro intent.

Peace

Lets just say that Swinggcat really does not disappoint with his latest book. His concepts of push-pull and prizability are so deadly that I reckon even some hunch back with 1 leg could pick up a girl using his technique.

Why is it so good? Human nature, people want to be wanted and when you immediately disqualify the girl and make out as if you are the prize, then pull her in, and push her away…. you will leave her completely hooked (or confused- which is a good thing) to the idea of wanting you.

The secret is that you apply to the girls “EGO”, she feels she has to get you to prove a point and the more you pull her in and push her away the more emotionally attached she gets. She invests emotions…. think about it, when people invest- they want to see a return!

Really this book is amazing. Get swinggcats book here

Art Of Push Pull

that’s the only way to describe it! Its one of those concepts that’s deeply rooted in psychology. People want what they can’t have and people want to know what they don’t understand. That’s why it works.  Later I will give you a few examples of how to make it work.

Push pull is teasing, it presents something to someone then you pull it away as the person almost has it. By definition push pull is pulling in a girl emotionally, by a certain action, and then pushing her away with another.

Swinggcat is known for his practice of push/pull and the idea of Prizability. Push/pull is actually an amazing skill and works with pretty much every girl I’ve met. Below are some of Swinggcats examples of push/pull. Check out his amazing ebook. Get it here.

Examples of Push/Pull by Swinggcat

Push-Pull Example #1 (Pick Up Example)

I grabbed a woman’s hand and said, you have the most amazing smile I’ve seen tonight It makes me feel so happy inside!

She responded with, thank you!

Then I counted the fingers on my other hand and said, you know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I’m going to call you number four.

And then I pushed away her hand.

She demanded, Nooo! I want to be number one!

And I replied, Alright, I’ll promote you to number three for being feisty.

Push-Pull Example #2 (Sarcasm)

A woman replied sarcastically to something I said.

So I said to her, “You know… you’re pretty sarcastic… and some people might think you’re mean because they don’t get your sarcasm. But I think your sarcasm is cool because I’m the same way. I’m also sarcastic. And that’s exactly why you and I could never hang out. ‘Cause if we did we’d have the best time making fun of everyone in our environment at their expense. And that’d be karmicly bad ’cause then all the people we made fun of would have low self esteem.”

She responded with, “Nooo. We have to hang out. You’re giving me your number right now.”

Push-Pull Example #3

I challenged a woman to kiss me… and she did.

So I said, “You’re more adventurous than I thought. You get an A-. And you have permission to cook me dinner.”

She retorted with, “What type of food do you want me to cook you?”

Women Get Aroused Differently Than Men!

For most women, it’s a huge turn on when a man gets them all hot and bothered… and then stops touching them, making them anticipate his touch… and then starts again, exponentially increasing their arousal.

This is exactly the same as the underlying structure of Push-Pull…

And probably why many women are natural Push-Pull artists.

LET ME SAY THAT AGAIN. Woman are natural push-pull artists!

And as you saw with the examples above…

Push-Pull can be used to generate arousal and attraction inside women before you ever become intimate with them (A truism most men don’t realize).

I want you to do something…

Touch your arm with your hand very lightly, as if it were a feather… and then take your hand away.

If you did it right you’ll feel an itching sensation.

Touch your arm again lightly… and then take your hand away.

The itching sensation should have increased, yes?

Push-Pull has the same structure.

Whenever you emotionally Pull a woman into you and then Push her away… and then Pull her in… and so on, you’re creating inside her a sexual and emotional itch to want and reach and chase for more of you.

If you do this in a playful way, women won’t see you as a manipulative jerk.

They’ll instead…

* See you as charming and attractive.
* Perceive you as a Prize they must possess.
* Know that you’re one of the few coveted men that understand what arouses and attracts women.
* Be itching with attraction toward you.

There are a few examples Here

But if you want to full course get hold of real world seduction here,

Chances are you met a girl out on the sarge, you built enough attraction and you smoothly number closed her in the hopes of seeing her again.

What you are about to read will completely change how you view TEXT game. There is not a standard TEXT to sms but rather  astandard way to respond….. the Swinggcat way.

Its all about being the prize, when you TEXT a girl you have got to have the mind set that You are giving her the chance to know you, and you are the prize. Im not sayong be arrogant, but rather confident.

Example of an opening text would be,

“Hey, whats up? Awesome meeting you the other nyt, I struggled to get the picture of your red “hooker” heels out my head.”

Whats important is that you wait a few days- ideally 2-3days before you TEXT…. THIS SCREAMS I am the prize, basically you are showing the girl you arent desperate to TEXT her. but you rather texted her because you were cored.

Notice how my TEXT could be taken as charming/cocky funny/cheeky/sweet….. the girl really wont know what to do with it…. she’ll probably laugh and send something cheeky back.

From there you want to be playful, and a little more sexual as she gets more comfortable with you, (Be warned dont build too much comfort or you might find yourself in the dreaded “friendship zone”)

A few phases that suggest that you are the prize

“You would love that wouldnt you “

“If your lucky”

“Im pretty busy this weekend, how about Sunday evening”

“I can be pretty fussy when it comes to girls”

“You better know how to cook/clean”

“If you cant you can make it up to me”

Swinggcat

Woman, especially hot ones have this bad habit of testing us.  Why do they Do this? Well there are a lot of potential mates for them out there and they need an efficient way to optimize their time. Testing us, cuts out all the garbage very quickly- it shows them who is a wuss and who isn’t.

That brings me to an amazing quote from Swinggcat

“When you refuse to tolerate mistreatment from a woman, you convey that you put more value on your standards, expectations of others, and yourself than on her beauty.”- Swinggcat

Think abou this whenever a woman tests you, never tolerate mistratement from a woman- if you do she will have no respect for you and move onto the next guy who doesn’t take her shit.

Till next time

Cheers

About Swinggcat

Swinggcat is a pickup artist featured in the book “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists” ~ by Neil Strauss under the name Grimble who was mainly based upon Swinggcat. Also famous for taking part in the infamous octoberman sequence which was used on Britney Spears by Kevin Little also known online as Houdni. Little He is famous for introducing several techniques, such as push-pull and meta frames, into the seduction community.

If you’re interested in push pull (and getting laid), go read this great article on how Pull Pull can get you LAID MORE OFTEN- it will change your life. Seriously. Click here:  http://attractionschoolonline.com/push-pull-and-why-youre-not-getting-laid/

Swinggcat can be summed up by the following: be the prize, make women want you by framing every interaction as YOU being the prize, not her.  This is known as prizability

Do this by auto-suggestions (“i am the prize”, “everywoman wants to sleep with me”) and by using a variety of techniques (re-hashed from almost every other ebook i have read) such as push-pull (push her a way with your comments, stories and body language – stand at an angle) and then pull her in with the same things.  This works wonders and is a great way to get a girl thinking

More about swinggcat and his techniques comming soon